I have a friend of mine who is contemplating leaving her spouse. I suggested that she should spend some time with God in His Word so that He can lead her and guide her.
She has her mind made up that there is no hope for her marriage. This is self talk is what I told her. In order to know what God has to say on the matter, I told her she has to get revelation from God.
After I finished talking to her about choices and consequences, she agreed that she does need to spend time with God and in His Word.
God is our protection and he will keep us from hurt, harm and danger. He can help us to cast down thoughts and imaginations that don't bring glory to God.
Here is a scripture that I believe is one to consider when having to make a serious decision:
Proverbs 11:14 – Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counselors there is safety. King James Version
In conclusion, divorce is not the will of God and there is no failure in God. Seek wise Godly counsel before making a decision that affects not only you but other family members also.